善意的謊言英語辯論會作文 篇1
Recently, I find it’s more and more useful to tell white lies, especially to our family or friends. Because white lies more or less can make them comfortable.
Take my parents for example. They always worry about me. Now I’m far away from home. As long as I have something wrong, they’ll become very anxious. For sure, I do have some trouble sometimes, but what I usually tell them is I’m just ok, please don’t worry.
Similarly, if one of my friends show me her new dress, I’ll say “ah, it’s pretty well!”, or, “hmm. I think it’s quite fit you.” My praise makes both of us happy.
So why not tell some white lies to the persons who you love and make your relationship closer? I think it a good idea.
善意的謊言英語辯論會作文 篇2
In our daily lives, we all hate people who lie to you. We often regard those who tell lies out of some ulterior motive associated with something bad and consider those people as being dishonest and persons who cannot be trusted. But not all lies are out of indecent motive and all "liers" are bad persons. On certain occasions, out of necessity, we simply cannot tell the truth but have to lie with good rather than bad intentions. To "lie with good intentions" is very common and almost all of us have done it. In evaluating another person, we more than often do not tell the truth or speak out what we truly think about the other person for purposes of trying not to hurt the feelings of the person being evaluated. Even though s/he looks ugly, we often tend to lie to her or him. "You look great!" "You are so pretty/handsome." In essence, in judging the nature of lies, we need to determine the intentions behind the lies, some with bad intentions and some with good intentions, and we should judge people who tell lies accordingly.
善意的謊言英語辯論會作文 篇3
In English a white lie means a lie of good intention. But whether people should tell a white lie remains controversial. A case in point is that whether the doctor should inform the patient about the true condition of his illness when he is suffering an incurable disease. Just as shown in the picture, the doctor is now caught in a dilemma. He can’t decide whether he should tell or conceal the patient’s serious condition.
Some people hold that telling patients about their true conditions mayrisk destroying their hope, which may make the illness even worse. So it’sbetter to tell the patient a white lie. People against this view argue thata while lie is after all a lie. The patients should be informed of theircondition since it is their legal right to know the truth of the fact.
Lies have been recognized as a synonym for cheating and hypocrisy and liars are often held in contempt. However, sometimes we need lies in real life, because a white lie can give one comfort and encouragement. If a
seriously ill patient, on hearing your while lie, can refresh himself to fight against the illness, don’t you think your lie is meaningful?
善意的謊言英語辯論會作文 篇4
Last week I lost my lunch money my mother gave me. I was worried and sad. My best friend Xiaomei gave me her only 10 yuan and told me that was her pocket money. I believed that. Then I knew the money was saved by her from breakfast and she wanted to buy a new bag. It moved me.
善意的謊言英語辯論會作文 篇5
大家好!我非常遺憾地告訴對方辯友,你們並沒有對善意謊言作出一個本質的解釋.你們所説得都只是淺層理解!
我們知道,人們身處在這個社會,揹負着許許多多的義務,而義務與義務之間有時候是會存在矛盾的,當一個義務凌駕於另一個義務之上時,就要緩解另一個義務.因此,善意的謊言的本質是一種更緊迫更重要的義務要實施,而以緩解誠信義務為代價.
對方辯友剛才立論的時候也舉了一些例子,説明了善意謊言的一些效用和好處,我們也肯定這些效用和好處,我們也肯定你們剛才所舉的善意謊言的例子本身.但是,你們千萬不要忽視,通過善意謊言獲得的效用和好處,終究還是要以犧牲誠信為代價的.
相信大家也聽説過機會成本吧!就是説,你做了某件事情,就失去了同時做其他事情的機會了.你要達到善意謊言的效果,就必須犧牲誠信,這就是善意謊言的機會成本!
此外,現代心理學研究指出,善意謊言分為兩個種類：一是客體善意謊言,一是主體善意謊言.
所謂客體善意謊言,是出發點完全為了對方利益的善意謊言,它較多地陳述善意撒謊的客體的情況,例如稱讚一個智力低下的小孩説他很聰明,讓他得到自信心.這客體善意謊言破壞誠信比較隱蔽,是一種慢性中毒.
所謂主體善意謊言,是出發點包含維護或牟取自己利益的成分的善意謊言,它較多地陳述善意撒謊的主體的情況.例如一個小孩子上課沒認真聽講,回家後他媽媽問他有沒有認真聽講,但他不希望媽媽責備他,也不希望媽媽傷心,因此撒謊説認真聽講了.這主體善意謊言破壞誠信比較明顯,是一種急性中毒了!
對方辯友得出善意謊言無礙誠信這個錯誤認識,無非就是受到客體善意謊言的誠信破壞隱蔽性所影響,你們沒有透過現象看本質,沒有意識到那是一種慢性中毒.
為什麼客體善意謊言是一種慢性中毒呢?該項心理學研究解釋説,因為客體善意謊言破壞誠信是不會直接被人們所感知的,而隨着時間的推移,它會慢慢地腐蝕人們的誠信系統.不誠信的理念藏於他們的潛意識,而“為人家好!”這句話就會成為他日後破壞誠信的內心藉口.
基於上述理由,我們認為,善意的謊言有礙誠信!